Advice on Relationships: How to Keep a Woman Happy
What are your thoughts about how to keep a woman happy? Here is some advice on relationships for men.
The first advice on relationships that I have for you is to always be yourself. Many men don’t feel that they are
good enough to catch a beautiful, sexy woman, so they put on a show. But a confident man is the sexiest beast
around. Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some of the prettiest women? That is because they
display a level of confidence that is more attractive to women than physical looks.
Next you have to resolve the little things. This means offering to take her car in for an oil change or giving her
a bag of Jelly Bellies (her favorite flavors) from time to time. Sometimes men think in terms of “grand gestures,”
when it is the little things that add up to long relationships.
This rolls right into the next piece of advice on relationships: You have to appreciate her. You shouldn’t take her
for granted. Let her know that you value her.
The next point should be obvious. Do Not look at other women when you are together with her. Women think that you
are comparing her to the woman you’re looking at. They don’t understand the whole concept“the day I stop looking is
the day I die.” This comes from the biological drive for monogamy in women. Women are looking for a lifetime
partner. A man with whom they can raise children. They can’t help it. That’s how evolution designed them. So
diminish the ogling, especially when she’s around.
A goal should be to make her laugh. While men list good looks at the top of the things they need in a woman, women
list a man’s sense of humor. So, if you want the relationship to last, keep her laughing.
Seek common interests is my next bit of advice on relationships. It’s great if you got together because of a hobby
or an interest, but it still helps when you take an interest in a long standing passion of hers. If this means
developing an appreciation for foreign films, so be it. This shows that you care about her and she’ll know you are
one in a million.
Once you get the girl don’t think that you don’t have to try anymore. Especially as it relates to grooming. And,
while women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who makes an attempt. So, shave on
weekends. Keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men. In short, don’t turn into a slobjust because you’ve
landed her. You can unland her just as easily.
Keep her family and friends in mind. She is going to need to know that you can be a member of those circles. A man
must be part of her larger life, especially after the first few weeks of passion are over. So, make an effort to
get along with her girlfriends and impress her parents. A woman relies on her social network to validate her
relationship choices. Make an effort.
Always be considerate of her feelings. Women are less stable than guys. Part of this is hormonal. When you are
sensitive to her mood, you won’t get on her bad side.
My final piece of advice on relationships is to be open to trying new things. At the beginning of a relationship,
everything is new from the types of dates you arrange to the way you kiss. But, after a while, these things become
routine. If you find that your relationship has fallen into a rut, shake things up. Try something new. It will go a
long way to keeping your relationship healthy.
If you use these ten bits of advice on relationships, your dating life will remain strong. Look you guys, these
things are common sense and the fact is I almost drove my sweetheart out of my life because I didn't pay attention
to what I was doing.
Oscar Rheasoneg,
There is a book that woke me up written by T 'Dub' Jackson called "The Magic Of Making Up". After I read it and began applying
his common sense suggestions, our love life turned around. Not only that all of my personal
relationships, with friends, co-workers and my family have become much smother than they were
before.
