If your relationship just ended and you aren’t the one who caused the break up, it becomes very important to know
how to get over someone. It’s not always easy to get over a person you’ve been with, though. If you’ve been with
that person for a very long time it’s even harder. It might be pretty easy to get over a relationship that’s lasted
3 months. But if you've been with someone for 3 years, it's hard to get over that person at all, let alone get over
them quickly. Fortunately, there are some things you can do to speed up the process.
When you wonder about how to get over someone, go find a place where there are strong memories of your ex partner;
a chair in the kitchen, the couch in the basement, the bedroom. Remove anything that reminds you of that person a
great deal. This isn't always easy to do, but every little bit helps. If you've bought a dog together, for
instance, of course you won’t want to get rid of the dog. But anything your ex bought for you that’s on display
like a knick-knack or something hanging on the wall would be a good thing to remove for a while.
Sure there are lots of things that remind you of your ex. You're probably wondering how to get over someone without
leaving your rooms bare. But even if you picked out just about everything together, you don’t have to remove
everything to make this work. Just choose items that have particularly strong memories.
Maybe it’s the wallpaper you picked out together or that huge floor pillow you bought or the small sculpture on the
entertainment unit that they gave you as a gift. Everything has memories of your ex and it makes you feel sad all
the time. Remove those items and store them for a while, just to make things easier on you.
Try thinking of your ex’s bad habits and qualities in you are really feeling bad and think you could handle it. Of
all the methods of how to get over someone, this is the one where you in point of fact think of your ex the most,
so if just the very thought of them brings you to tears you might not be ready for this step. Think of the things
you disliked the most about them. If you can’t thing of anything, just move on. But most of us can come up with a
long list of things we dislike about someone, especially if they were the ones to end the relationship.
A prevalent method of how to get over someone is to simply start dating again. More than a few people balk at this
idea-they think they still love the ex and aren’t ready. You can do this even if you’re still in love with your ex.
No one says you have to fall in love anytime soon. But dating or even going out with friends isn’t just how to get
over someone, it’s how to keep from feeling sorry for yourself while you try.
Oscar Rheasoneg,
T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And you know, it worked like magic
for us. Now we are more in love than ever.
